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How to sell to a buyer who says send me a quote and goes silent

A quote request can mean four different things. Two questions asked before you price tell you which, and decide whether to quote, to hold back or to ask for more.

The GullySales team · Updated 17 Oct 2026 · 5 min read

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  1. What can "send me a quote" actually mean?
  2. Which two questions come before the price?
  3. What do you do with each answer?
  4. For example: a water-treatment supplier in Guwahati
  5. What if the silence has already started?
  6. How do you word the questions on a call?
  7. When should you not ask the questions?
  8. Making it a habit

"Send me a quote" means one of four things: the buyer is ready to order, is comparing prices, is checking a budget, or wants to end the call politely. You cannot tell which from the words. Two questions asked before you price will separate them, and the answers decide whether you send a full quote, a short rate or nothing yet.

What can "send me a quote" actually mean?

What the buyer meansHow you can tellWhat it needs from you
Ready to order, needs a number to approveGives quantity, site and date without being askedA clear quote, fast
Comparing suppliersAsks for the rate only, vague on quantityA quote that shows what the price includes
Checking a budgetCannot say when, or who decidesA range and a call with the person who sets the budget
Ending the callVague answers, no specification, "I will let you know"A short reply, no heavy work

Treat each differently. Spending three hours on a full quote for the fourth kind of buyer is a common waste in a small business.

Which two questions come before the price?

Ask them in a friendly tone, as part of getting the quote right.

First: "What will this be used for, and when do you need it?" This tells you whether there is a project behind the request. A buyer with a real job has a date. A buyer without one says "just checking".

Second: "Who else will be looking at the quote?" This finds the person who decides. If the answer is "my boss" or "the purchase team", you now know to write the quote so it can be read by a stranger, and you can ask for a call with that person.

You can add a third if the buyer is warm: "Are you looking at any other suppliers?" Ask it only after they have answered the first two, or it feels like an interrogation. The six-question call is in this post on qualifying on the first call.

What do you do with each answer?

Use a simple decision rule:

  1. Date and decider both given: send a full quote the same day and fix a time to talk about it.
  2. Date given, decider unknown: send the quote, and in the message ask whether it can be shared with the person who approves.
  3. No date, decider given: send a rate range, not a final quote, and offer to firm it up once the date is known.
  4. Neither given: send a short reply with starting rates and one question. Do not build a document.

The fourth case feels unhelpful. It is not. It tells the buyer you are willing and also that a real quote needs real information.

For example: a water-treatment supplier in Guwahati

This is an invented supplier of drinking-water plants to hostels and offices, who took a call from a clerk at a private college: "Send me a quote for a water plant." The supplier's habit was to email three capacities with prices and wait. Three such calls in a row had gone silent.

This time the supplier asked the two questions. The plant was for a new hostel opening soon, and the warden's committee would approve. That put the call in rule one. The supplier sent one recommended size with two alternatives, and a line asking whether the warden would like a short call to go over the water source and the room for installation.

The clerk could not have picked between three capacities, since choosing was not the clerk's job. The warden could, and the call with the warden is where the order came from, for the smallest of the three sizes. The earlier quotes had simply landed on a desk that had no power to say yes.

What if the silence has already started?

Do not send "Any update?". The buyer may be waiting for a person to approve, for a budget cycle or for a comparison. Ask a question that is easy to answer: "Is the quote with [Name] for approval, or are you still deciding the specification?" It names the likely holdups and lets them pick.

If there is still no answer, send one closing message that gives the buyer a way out: "I will close this quote on [date]. If the timing changes, send me a line." Buyers sometimes answer a closing message after ignoring several reminders. Our post on why customers stop responding after a proposal lists the reasons behind the silence.

How do you word the questions on a call?

Keep them short, with the reason first. For instance: "So that I quote the right size, what is it for, and when does the hostel open?" Then: "And will anyone else need to see the quote, so I can write it so they understand it too?" Both sound like service. Neither sounds like a test. Write down the answers during the call, in the buyer's own words, because the second time you speak to them you will want to repeat their phrase back.

If the buyer sounds irritated, stop. Say you will send starting rates now and a firm quote once they have the details, and then do so. The door stays open and little work is lost.

When should you not ask the questions?

If the buyer is an existing customer ordering something they have bought before, just send the rate. The questions would insult them. If the request comes through a tender or a portal with a fixed format, you answer the format and cannot interview anyone. And if you are the only supplier for what they need, you can lead with the price.

Making it a habit

Write the two questions on a card by the phone, or save them as a quick reply if you use WhatsApp Business. Beside each quote request in your sheet, note which rule you used, 1, 2, 3 or 4. After a few months, count orders by rule. That count shows where your quoting hours pay. If the chasing is what slips, quotation and proposal follow-up is the service for it, and the sales section holds the related posts. To describe your own products and buyers, tell us what you need.

Questions

Questions owners ask.

Is it rude to ask questions before sending a quote?
No. A serious buyer expects them, because a quote without them would be a guess. Say it as a favour: you want the price to be right so there are no surprises later. A buyer who refuses to answer anything is telling you something.
What if the buyer says just send the rate list?
Send it, with one line asking which items they actually need. A rate list is fine for a buyer who already knows what to order. For a buyer who does not, it gives them what they need to compare you and leave.
How long should I wait before following up?
Follow up on the day you promised in the quote, or the next working day. Hold the quote open for a stated period so the date is natural. Chasing earlier than that looks anxious and later looks uninterested.
When do I stop chasing?
After a closing message that gives the buyer an easy way to say no. If nothing comes back, record the lead as cold and move on. You can revive it when something changes, such as a new stock or a rate.

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