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Repeat what you heard, in writing, and have the buyer confirm it.

Active listening practice trains a rep to hear the buyer's point and say it back; a written recap puts the same points and dated next steps in a message the buyer confirms. This page gives the drill, the recap format and a WhatsApp-plus-email routine.

Scope, fee, reporting and term are agreed in writing after we have read your brief and spoken to you.

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In one paragraph

Active listening practice trains a rep to hear the buyer's point and say it back; a written recap puts the same points and dated next steps in a message the buyer confirms. This page gives the drill, the recap format and a WhatsApp-plus-email routine.

After a site meeting in Ludhiana, a hosiery manufacturer's buyer agrees verbally to try three sample lots. A fortnight later the buyer remembers asking for two, and wants the older price. The rep has no note of the call. The conversation was cordial and recorded nowhere.

Active listening starts with the rep noticing what the buyer says rather than waiting for a turn to talk. The recap is the proof. Within the day, the rep sends a short message: what we discussed, what you want, what we each do next, with dates. The buyer replies yes or corrects it. If they correct it, that is the useful part.

The sales head runs the drill in pairs every fortnight and checks a few recaps each week. It replaces the pattern of buyers repeating themselves on every call and proposals that answer a question nobody asked. It follows the discovery call: the drill covers how to hear, the recap stores what you heard.

For an Indian buyer the practical form is a short WhatsApp message with an email copy for anyone who needs to forward it.

Where this sits

Topic 3 of 8 in sales training and coaching: qualifying conversations. Practising discovery and qualification without interrogating.

If you want this done for you

Training happened once, and the habits it was meant to fix did not last the month.

The work

What this is actually like.

  • “Paraphrase before you answer”

    When a buyer finishes a point, say it back in your own words before responding: 'So the worry is delivery in the monsoon.' If you got it wrong they correct you within a sentence. If you got it right they relax and tell you more.

  • “Write down the buyer's exact phrase”

    Notes in the rep's own shorthand lose the words the buyer chose. A buyer who said 'I don't want to be stuck with stock' has told you the deal. If your note says 'inventory concern' you will write a proposal about inventory, not about being stuck.

  • “A recap with no dates is a diary entry”

    Each next step needs a name and a day: 'You will send the drawing by Thursday; I will send the revised quote on Friday.' The date is what the buyer will confirm or push back on, and a pushed date is an honest signal.

  • “Silence is also something to record”

    If the buyer did not respond when you mentioned the decision committee, note it. What a buyer avoids is as useful as what they say. The recap should carry one line that checks it: 'Is there anyone else who should see this?'

What we do

What you end up with.

The documents this topic produces, what each one is for, and how you know it is finished.

  1. The listening drill

    Pairs, six minutes. One rep talks about a real buying problem; the other may only ask questions and repeat back. A third rep counts how many times the listener paraphrased accurately and how many times they interrupted.

    Result: Finished when each rep has been the listener once and the observer has marked both counts.

  2. The recap template

    Five headings: what you told us, what we propose, what each of us does next with dates, what we still need to find out, and who else should see this. Short enough for a phone screen, with a closing line asking the buyer to reply with a yes or a correction.

    Result: Finished when a rep can write a complete recap in under five minutes after a call.

  3. The WhatsApp and email pair

    A short WhatsApp message with the key points and dates, followed by an email carrying the same text with attachments. The email is for the file, the WhatsApp is for the reply. Keep the language the buyer uses.

    Result: Finished when the buyer's reply is on file in the CRM against the deal.

  4. The weekly recap check

    The sales head reads five recaps from the week against the rep's call notes and marks any that miss something the buyer said. The feedback is a conversation, not a mark.

    Result: Finished when each rep has seen one comparison of their recap and their notes this week.

Why us

Why owners pick GullySales over an agency.

  • Marketing and sales, as one job

    Most agencies stop at the enquiry. We also fix what happens after it: the reply, the follow-up, the quote and the CRM.

  • The person on the first call does the work

    No account managers in between. You are never handed to someone you have not met.

  • A baseline before anything starts

    Your numbers are written down on day one, so every later report compares against something honest.

  • The fee in writing, split three ways

    Our time, your media spend and production on separate lines. You always see what goes to us.

  • No guarantees we cannot keep

    The term is agreed in writing and never a default twelve months. We never promise a ranking or a lead count, because nobody controls those.

  • One office, and we say so

    Nagarbhavi, Bengaluru. We work across India by call and WhatsApp and travel when a session needs to be in person.

#257, 3rd floor, Sri Nanjundeshwara Complex, Nagarbhavi 8th Block, Outer Ring Road. How we work.

Your brief

Tell us what you need, and we will read it before we call.

Eight short steps about your business, what you want and who decides. Most questions are a tap, and you can skip any you would rather answer on the call.

FAQ

Questions owners ask before they call.

Not here? More answers, or ask on WhatsApp.

How soon after the meeting should the recap go?
The same day, while the details are clear. A recap three days later has lost its value, because the buyer has moved on and your own memory has softened. Set a reminder at the end of every meeting.
Will buyers think a written recap is too formal?
A short, friendly WhatsApp does not read as formal. Buyers who dislike writing back will tick a message with a thumbs-up, which is itself a record. A buyer who objects to the recap is telling you something about the deal.
What if the buyer corrects the recap?
Good. Thank them, update the record and note what you had wrong. A correction at this stage costs a sentence; the same correction found at the contract stage costs a deal.
Do we need recordings of calls?
Not for this. Recording rules vary and consent is needed, so ask your own adviser before you start. A written recap sent to the buyer achieves the same checking without the legal question.
How much does it cost?
There is no price list, because the work differs by business. The fee is scoped after we have read your brief and spoken to you, and put in writing before anything starts. For sales work it is mostly our time, with production only where scripts, decks or CRM setup need it.
How long is the contract?
The term is agreed in writing after we have spoken, along with the fee and the reporting. It is never a default twelve months, and renewal is decided on the numbers against the baseline recorded at the start.
Who will actually do the work?
The person you speak to before anything starts. We work from one office in Nagarbhavi, Bengaluru, with no account managers in between.
What do you need from us?
To start, last month's enquiries in any format and time with whoever handles them. After that, access to the accounts the work touches, such as the website, Google Business Profile or CRM.
What if we are not happy with the work?
Tell us and the plan changes. Everything is reported against the baseline, so a number that is not moving is visible to both sides. The term is in your written scope, and the refund and cancellation policy sets out the rest.

Your next practical step

Tell us what you are trying to grow, and we will read it before we call.

Eight short steps, mostly taps. Skip anything you would rather answer on the call.